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One way we avoid having to deal with the difficult and painful emotions that accompany the loss of a romantic relationship is by obsessing about our previous partner. This usually takes one of two forms—vilifying or idealizing.read more
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Here’s How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You
We don’t get into these topics quite often, but the research done on this angle is worth your read time. When researchers asked people to tell the stories of how they fell in love, what were the eleven most common factors?
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9 Small Ways I Keep My Wife Happy, Every Day. Oh and Happy Mothers day too!
Relationships take work. Hard work. In order to grow in your marriage, you need to embody the change that you want to see. You need to be the positive leader, pioneering habits that result in better outcomes.read more
Secretly, silently, maybe even unconsciously, we think other people are just like us. We fall in love and assume the two of us see the world through the same lens, even if we get lots of clues that, actually, no, we don’t. So then we spend the next 45 years trying to convince our significant other to see everything our way.read more
I wish Dr. Gary Chapman’s book, The Five Love Languages was around when I was growing up. It would have taught me
things I did not realize until just a few years ago. And it would have saved me a lot of heart ache in relationships, not just intimate relationships, but ones with my parents and children as well.read more